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The Most Effective Way To Pick Up A Woman

2008-01-22T09:48:00.000-05:00

Here's the mindset you should have if you really want to be
successful when it comes to dating and meeting women.

Firstly, take all the things that your mom & dad ever taught you
about how to treat and date a woman and do the exact OPPOSITE!

It's not a secret anymore that even though a woman constantly
says that all she wants is a nice, sweet, and caring guy in their
life, often times they're actually lying to themselves -- without
them even realizing it!

It's true!

Seriously.

In the movies, yes, the girl always falls for the nice guy, but
in real life, especially more so if you really want to be able
be with as many women as possible in your lifetime - the nice
guy route will get you nowhere and you'll end up getting nothing
but rejections.

I'm not going to go into the details on the 'why' part of it
because most of you might have already know about it.

Just in case you still don't know why, you can read and listen all about it here in my newly released "Instant Attraction Program"

But what I AM going to talk about today is why do women,
especially attractive ones can act rather 'bitchy' and rude
sometimes and how you can effectively pick up one - with ease.

First of all, you have to understand that attractive women, they
get 'hit on' one way or another at least 10 times a day everyday
- consistently.

Now at first it may all seem happy and nice with them receiving
all the attention from the guys, and sure they can be all cutesy
and polite to them whenever they're being approached but
after a while, it all tends to get rather irritating and
annoying - merely because they're hearing the same ol' lines,
howlings and perv stares over and over again.

Exact words from a woman's mouth - not mine.

So what they do about it?

Well in order for them to 'save time', they would then be
'forced' to be more 'to the point' or as we like to call it
'bitchy' to the guys that approach them.

Why must they be so mean?

Simply because they HAVE to.

You see, if they weren't mean enough, guys who are usually
thick-skinned will not get the point and they'll keep on
pursuing UNTIL she says a firm no.

Makes sense?

How do I know this? Well, to be honest with you, it was merely
by chance. I didn't get any of it at first until I started to
really mix with women.

Sometimes, it's really good to have close girl friends because
you might learn a LOT from them. I now begin to see it all from
THEIR perspective now...

How to approach a woman?

Now, I've noticed that most guys (the majority of them actually),
whenever they approach a woman, they always start off by saying
something like 'Hi there, you're gorgeous, oh by the way, my
name's John, what's yours? I'd like to get to know you, bla bla
bla..."

Heard of such a line before?

Or probably something along these lines?

Now, think about it. If you're a girl and you get asked the
same question about 5-10 times a day, do you think that there's
a high chance that you'll get immune to it?

Of course you would!

And I'm not guessing here because I had a girl friend who once
told me the same thing that I'm telling you now!

It's just too 'typical' for them to receive such lame,
everyday 'pick up' lines.

Best thing is, do you know instead what they would rather hear?

Try this:

Go up to her, and just give her a funny compliment on something
she LEAST expects to get a compliment on (NEVER compliment her
looks, she's immune to that, remember?), you can compliment on
her funky hairstyle, her heels, her big ears -- anything.

Just as long as its something she LEAST expects to hear from
a guy.

Using humour is always good in picking up women. Humor added
with a bit of spunk, along with a spot-on sarcastic tone and
body language will definitely seal the deal for you -- and
get her interested.

Surely.

Think about it.

This works. :-)

[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "Instant
Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST COMPREHENSIVE
program revealing the most intimate secrets on female
attraction techniques and dating strategies.

The 2 Magical Traits That ALL Women Are Attracted To...

2008-01-21T09:34:00.000-05:00

Everyone knows this...

Women are one of the most ILLOGICAL human beings in the
world.

That's true.

Ever noticed why certain women tend to remain in physically
abusive relationships, year after year even when they
knowingly KNOW that the relationship will never become better?

You have to get into their minds and understand exactly what
makes them... women.

First of all, unlike us - as men, we normally get turned on
VISUALLY.

We are VISUAL beings.

As 'hunters', we are normally attracted to things that are
visually attractive and appealing.

We see an attractive woman, one that has a solid, curvy,
slender looking body - and we IMMEDIATELY get turned on.

And if she's really sexy looking, chances are we'll get
arou.sed in 2 seconds.

We'll find ourselves immediately 'wanting' her.

And we automatically think it is... love.

Some might suddenly see a hot looking woman in front of them
and INSTANTLY think that it's love.

Fact is, it is NOT love at first sight.

We were merely attracted to a her PHYSICALLY and nothing
else.

What if deep down that perfect body, lies a gold-digging,
selfish, dumb & boring personality?

Would we really care?

No.

Because we get turned on by VISUAL things.

Guys go out expecting to get 'laid'.

Women on the other hand are human beings of EMOTION.

It's not so much about 'looks' with them.

They are more inclined to get attracted to guys with
PERSONALITY. How you talk to them...

How you make them FEEL.

Ever notice that how women tend to take a LONGER time to
fall in love with men?

You don't see many women around who happened to see a
hot-looking guy and immediately thinks she's 'in love'
with him, don't you?

She will usually need time to 'get to know him better'...

... 'get to know his friends better'...

... 'get to know his family members better'...

I'm sure you heard THAT before, right?

For them, as long as they can 'feel a connection' with the
guy, THEN there might be a POSSIBILITY of her falling in
love with him.

Notice how women often uses the word "feel" when their
talking about love, relationships & guys.

And sure enough, it takes women a longer time to fall
in love, but once they are really 'into' the guy, they
will give him their ALL.

They will do WHATEVER it takes to make him happy, cook his
favorite dishes, wash his clothes, clean his apartment,
etc.. they will basically go to GREAT lengths to
'satis.fy' their man the moment their in love with him...

Ever noticed that?

To put in simply, if you want to be GREAT with women, you
must know HOW to 'trigger' her innermost feelings of
emotions whenever you're with them.

Women don't get turned on by guys JUST by looking at them.
Yes, there are a few who might be like that, but in
general, they will more likely be together with a guy that
knows how make them FEEL great.

You must be able to 'connect' with them on their 'EMOTIONAL'
level.

And If you can consistently get a woman's attention and
make her FEEL pleasurable sensations whenever she's with
you - you have struck GOLD!

"And how do you do this then?", you may ask...

One of the most powerful ways is by using HUMOR in a
PLAYFUL, CHARMING & TEASING way...

If you can make women laugh & have fun EVERYTIME and amp
those feelings of PLAYFULNESS whenever you're with her,
believe me they WILL quickly develop PLEASURABLE feelings
for you.

Women LOVE funny, playful guys!

Who doesn't?

For example, if a woman I've just met in a bar accidently
brushes against me, I'll immediately go

"Hey, what's wrong with you?

"We just met & ALREADY you can't keep your hands to
yourself?"

"What next, you'll spike my drink and seduce me to sleep
with you tonight?"

I'll then slide my glass to another corner of the table.

"I'll be watching you..."

I'll then wait for her face to light up ;-)

Get what I'm trying to say here?

Be playful.

Show her a good time and tease her WHENEVER you can.

TRY it and you'll see it work WONDERS to your Game ;-)

[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "Instant
Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST COMPREHENSIVE
program revealing the most intimate secrets on female
attraction techniques and dating strategies.

How To Create Instant Attraction & Have Women Chase YOU!

2008-01-17T11:15:00.000-05:00

As guys, we were normally taught by our parents that the best
way to get a girl is for us to be 'nice, gentle, caring and
loving' guys.

"Just show her you care, be there for her whenever she needs
you, be a romantic, send her flowers, and constantly pursue
her."

"Do this persistently and one fine day, she'll [naturally]
develop feelings for you and will fall for you".

Frankly speaking, back during the 50s, 60s and 70s, such
'wussy-like' techniques could work.

I mean, that was exactly how our dads normally courted our
moms anyway, right?

If it worked for them then, in theory, it would definitely
work for us now, right?

I used to think that this should be the way.

But I was dead wrong.

In fact, when I first started developing interest for girls,
I tried this tactic myself, and went through many a heart
break along the way.

It's now the new millenium and we have to move along with
times. Things change, technology change, people change,
WOMEN change; naturally the DATING SCENE has changed as
well.

For me, one of the best ways for you to get the women you
desire is for you to first -- Change your mindset.

Stop going after the girl.

Traditionally, it was the guy who has to go after the
girl. But the "dating" scene has EVOLVED so much since
the time of our forefathers, it doesn't have to be this
way anymore!

In fact, if you want to be successful with women -- your
mindset MUST be changed where your goal right now is to
'se.xually attract' HER to come after YOU...

... and no it is NOT impossible!

Let me give you an example...

You see, apart from teaching guys to be more successful
with women, I am also an entrepreneur and I sell
software products to my clients from all over the world.

For me, I tend to find it much EASIER to sell products
to people who are ALREADY interested in my products or
services rather than trying to cold call a prospective
client and try to 'sell' it to them.

Imagine if you're a sales person who's job is to sell
credit cards.

Don't you think it's much easier for you to close the sale when you have call-in or walk-in prospective clients who
walks into the bank and tells you "I'm interested to apply
for a credit card. What do you need?"

Same applies here when you're dating women.

You'll get far better results if you can "draw" her in
& get HER interested to come after you instead.

Don't you think it'll be WAY easier to "close" her
when she's ALREADY interested in you?

And exactly how do you do that?

Again in business.

What differentiates a successful multi-million dollar
business from a struggling or an average "so-so" one?

The answer is 'differentiation'.

Successful business owners knows that in order for a
customer to choose their products over their MANY other
competitors, they will have to come out with a product,
a business system or marketing concepts that are truly
'indifferent'.

The have to be unique and really STAND OUT from the rest.

Same goes in the seduction game.

If you want to become really successful in it, you've
got to differentiate yourself by becoming truly unique,
but in a very EXCITING and ATTRACTIVE way.

You see, if you've set your sight on a physically
attractive woman, fact is that many other guys will ALSO
find her attractive and would go straight on and hit on
them.

On average, top-dog, hot looking women normally gets hit
on at least, a minimum of 5-8 times -- every single day.

Now honestly ask yourself; what will your chances of
'scoring' with her be like if you were to act and do the
EXACT SAME things like the the REST OF THE OTHER GUYS who
are hitting on her that particular day?

Answer - most likely, zero.

If you really want to stand above the rest of them,
you have to be truly unique and INDIFFERENT in your
approach.

Most guys try to "convince" a woman to feel attracted
to them by giving them compliments, gifts, buying
them expensive dinners, etc with the HOPE that they
will fall for them.

This NEVER works.

Attraction happens instantly or NOT at all.

Plain and simple.

Get that DRILLED into your head.

Don't be anything like the other clueless men, and
start complementing her, be all submissive to her
every demand, using cheesy pick-up lines, because women,
esp beautiful ones, they are IMMUNE to such wussy like
guys, its just too 'easy'/boring for them.

Instead, you should DEVELOP traits that women will
normally find attractive in a man:

- Confidence (not acting insecure & needy)
- Being unapologetic when you're talking to her in a
charming & funny way
- Not accepting bit.chy behaviour from her or anyone
else
- Have strong control of YOUR composure and SHOWING to
her that you're not at all INTIMIDATED by her looks &
let her know that SHE has to be the one to IMPRESS you
- Flirtatious/charming character & body language

Having all these traits immediately throws women off their
tracks because these are all things that they LEAST
expect in their interactions with men.

I hope you're getting what I am trying to say here.

Oh and here's a little something on "pick-up lines"

Guys are always searching for the latest and best
pick up lines.

My advice is - FORGET pick up lines.

At this day and age, women automatically turn
themselves "off" to pick up lines, esp cheesy ones.

They get 'hit' by them over a thousand times in their
lifetime - Don't get me wrong, really, REALLY good
pick lines can work at times, but it can only get
you as far as the first 30 seconds and that's it.

What happens AFTER you've run out of 'cool' lines then?

How are you going to "keep her interested" & keep the
Game going then?

Bottom line, pick up lines are the OLD FASHIONED way
of approaching women.

[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "Instant
Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST COMPREHENSIVE
program revealing the most intimate secrets on female
attraction techniques and dating strategies.

How Does An Average Looking Joe Stand-Out From The Other Guys And Have Women Picking Him Over The Rest

2008-01-16T12:32:00.000-05:00

If you want to be truly successful with women, you've got to
learn ways to create instant attraction with women"

What does the words "create attraction" really mean?

Ok - think of it this way...

Physically attractive, hot looking women have TONS of options
when it comes to men.

Whether they like it or not, they are approached by men ALL
THE TIME.

Now, if you've an average looking or probably physically
'unattractive' kinda guy -- how do YOU stand out from the rest
then?

How do these physically attrac.tive women choose their men?

What makes them sit up and take notice then?

Guys think that they will score better with a woman if their
physically attractive... this is where their DEAD WRONG.

Instead, women find men with strong character & personality
traits much more APPEALING to them.

Simply put -- CHARACTER & PERSONALITY are what women find
most ATTRACTIVE in men. NOT looks.

Get that in your head.

How do you attract them?

Be flirtingly playful:

- Send mixed signals (make her laugh, give her an enjoyable
time, let her think you're interested in her, then
suddenly walk away)

- Be a mystery to her (when she asks for your name, don't
give her a direct answer, if she asks for your accupation,
tell her you're a crocodile hunter, the point is to keep
her guessing, etc)

- Tease her (if she wants something from you, tell her she
has to EARN it)

- Dominant (being the one in control of the situation and
never allowing others to effect it)

What you must understand is in order for you to create
attraction, you've got to first spark and then AMPLIFY the
se.xual attraction in her for you by communicating with her
through playful verbal and non-verbal flirting.

Attraction is created by playfully flirting, using humor
and demonstrating personality traits that women find most
appealing to her... at the same time projecting you're in
CONTROL of the situation in a very laid back & relaxed
manner.

In order to create attraction then, you must constantly
be using it on a woman.

You can't just use it "once in a while."

Instead, you've got to use it ALL THE TIME when you're
with woman you're eye-ing for. And once you've done it
enough, and IF you did it the 'right' way, you'll notice
how women will open up to you & start flirting back with
you in a playful, sensual and exciting way as well...

Let me give you an example...

If you say something like "Hi, my name's John. I can't
help but notice how beautiful you are and I just had to
come up and get to know you"...

This is NOT flirting.

Instead, you could go

Her: So are you here alone?

You: I'm not answering that.

Her: Why not?

You: How would I know if you're not a serial stalker.

Her: Hey (laughs) -- do I look like one?

You: Do you REALLY want to know the answer? ;-)

Do you get what I'm trying to say here?

I'm taking an everyday, casual question and turning it into
something playful & fun with her.

You see, when you communicate to her in this manner, you're
FLIRTING, being playful & TEASING her in a way that most men
NEVER DO.

And the moment you get her 'into' this sort of flirting
conversation, you begin to quickly spark that inner
attraction in her.

Women generally aren't attracted to guys who constantly
submit in to their demands, they want someone 'challenging',
fun and EXCITING.

It's absolutely crucial for you to get this right from the
very beginning when you're dating women.

[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "Instant
Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST COMPREHENSIVE
program revealing the most intimate secrets on female
attraction techniques and dating strategies.

How to Tell If Someone’s Lying Just From Looking At Their Hands…

2007-05-07T09:48:00.000-05:00

It’s a fact: other people’s lies make our lives more difficult. They distort and twist the truth, con us into believing things never happened, or took place when they shouldn’t have. There are literally thousands and thousands of ways people’s untruths and falsehoods taint and make living our daily lives more of an effort than it really should be.
So what can we do about it?
How can we put a stop to lies the second we hear them and reveal the real truth, the actual facts, the exact situation?
The answer is natural lie detection – techniques, strategies and knowledge that give a person the rare and invaluable ability to separate the real from the fake and always know what to believe and what to question.
So, what does it consist of? Well, natural lie detection uses no machines, test papers, no video or audio recordings. It is, as the name suggests, a science based on human perception and skill.
It has 3 main components. They are the interpretation and analysis of: body language, psychology, and verbal communication. By having a deep and expert knowledge of all three, you can become capable of spotting 99 out of 100 lies, whether they’re spoken over the phone, in person or even over the internet or via text message. Although learning these special techniques isn’t difficult when you have the time and proper reading material, it does require more space to explain than this short article allows. However, that doesn’t mean we can’t go over one way many liars give themselves away. This collection of principles falls under the body language category of natural lie detection and focuses solely on how a dishonest person uses, or avoids using, their hands when they’re being deceitful. There are 3 main hand-related signals of deceptiveness.
Signal #1: HAND GESTURE FREQUENCY. People use their hands to visually illustrate and emphasise their statements – it’s a way of painting an abstract picture in the air to better help the person or people they’re talking to understand the concepts being covered. When someone lies, however, their mind works differently to how it normally operates. Their thought process is dominated by the act of being dishonest convincingly and they therefore tend to change how they use their hands. The first change you should look for is in how often they gesticulate with their hands while talking. The majority of people, when they lie, lessen the amount of movements they make with their hands because they subconsciously want to restrict the volume of information being given to the person they’re lying to – out of fear of saying too much, either verbally or physically, and getting caught out or questioned. More proficient liars, or people who have rehearsed or planned a lie before telling it, actually tend to increase the frequency of their hand gestures. They’ll slice the air more with the blade of their hand or point their finger and clench their fists more frequently to illustrate and back-up what they’re saying. So, in short, look for a marked difference between the amount of hand gesticulations a person uses when in normal, day-to-day, obviously truthful conversation and when you suspect they may be lying to you or have a good reason to twist or otherwise alter the truth.
Signal #2: HAND-TO-FACE ACTIONS. The second signal you should look out for is an increase in the number of hand-to-face actions a person makes when you think they could be lying. The main reason they touch their faces more often when lying than when telling the truth is because of the internal social pressure they’re feeling, which leaks out in the form of hand-to-face actions. Look for moments when the person momentarily covers their mouth with their hand or fingers. This is a subconscious attempt to stifle themselves and physically block the lie from leaving their lips – they do this to futilely try to block their falsehood from reaching you and thereby decrease the chance of getting caught and lessen their feeling of guilt. However, many people are on some level aware of how mouth covers may be interpreted (as a sign that they’re lying) so instead try to camouflage the action by instead lightly touching their nose (which indirectly covers their mouth with their hand). Another reason many liars touch their noses is because of the increased blood-flow that occurs in its deep tissues, which creates an almost imperceptible tingle that, although not consciously felt and reacted to, causes the liar to unwittingly touch their nose for a moment. So, always keep an eye out for increased hand-to-face actions, especially those that cover a person’s mouth in some way or another.
Signal #3: THE HAND SHRUG. When people don’t know the answer to something or want to convey the messages: “I’m not sure,” or “I don’t care,” they often lift and quickly drop their shoulders in a shrugging motion. A variation of shoulder shrugging is the hand shrug: a quick lifting and dropping of one or both upturned hands. Like shrugging with the shoulders, it’s a way of expressing a type of diminished responsibility in regards to an issue or topic – and that’s why liars tend to overuse the hand shrug while being dishonest. Instead of using it only to accompany words that express a feeling of uncertainty or ambivalence – the way people do when being honest – liars use the hand shrug alongside verbal statements that don’t relate to “not knowing” or “not caring.” They do this subconsciously to distance themselves from the lie they’re telling.
Look for these 3 signs of potential dishonesty whenever you suspect someone might be lying and you’ll be a step closer to becoming a true master of deceit detection – a human lie detector.
Simon Cruise is the expert author of Detect Deceit, a revolutionary guide that details how anyone can learn to become a master of lie detection, with the ability to analyze the things people say and do and instantly judge whether or not they can be trusted. Find out more at http://www.detectdeceit.com

Great way that is pretty simple for everyone.

2007-05-06T09:43:00.000-05:00

You are probably on this site because you want some help with finding help with picking up women, or just here to get some tips. Well, I have tips that is pretty simple but is really, REALLY effective : Online Dating Services and websites. You are probably thinking, well these cost alot of money and you don't get any replies and the sites are complicated or you don't get people that are close to you.

Well, I personnally tried out JustSayHi.com, and I've found out that there is such thing as an effective dating service that is online, and that is simple to use. You can just plain out search for people close to you, so you already eliminate all those people that interest you but are across the country. A vast majority of users have at least one picture on their profile, so there is less chance of getting bad surprises, physically speaking...

There is also one other point, that is of GREAT importance. JustSayHi.com, is a FREE service. Not just for women, and not for a limited time, you can be a member there without having to pay a dime, and that is at all times. I think that is a key issue with online dating services, having to pay monthly to access the websites. Well this is no more of a problem.

Seriously, JustSayHi.com is a real good way to go, check it out at:
http://www.JustSayHi.com and tell me what you think!

GuyGetsGirl Review: A Unique and New Approach to Attracting and Seducing Women for Men Written By a Woman

2007-05-02T07:34:00.000-05:00

By now you’ve probably seen hundreds of guys all over the net promoting pickup and seduction guides, DVD’s and courses. And if you’re like me, you’ve probably even tried a few (in fact, I’ve probably spent a few thousand dollars on attraction and seduction education – including the seminars, books and stuff). Some of these ‘gurus’ peddling their wares know what they are talking about, but most don’t and are just in this industry for a quick buck.

In the best part of 10 years and after using dozens of guru’s material I didn’t come across ANYTHING written by a woman for men - until now.

I’ve finally found a collection of eBooks written by a woman – the author’s name is Tiffany Taylor. I bought access to Tiffany’s GuyGetsGirl site and instantly downloaded her 3 chunky eBooks which take you by the hand from beginner’s essentials like the importance of smiling, self-confidence up to the advanced heavily psychological stuff. There’s something in here for everybody whatever your level and lots of really powerful techniques I’d never heard of before.

I remember thinking to myself, “women don’t really know what women want, they just know what they THINK they want” but with this one I was wrong. She goes deep into the female psyche and really does expose a few “short cuts” and easy to press attraction buttons that are present in all women. And boy do they work.

I’d say this is probably the most unique and fresh approach to attraction and seduction I’ve seen in a very long time and it is well worth checking out if you have the money. If not and you want to increase your success with beautiful women, then SAVE UP and get this guide. You won’t regret it.

Dean

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Prejaculation Review: A Brand New System That Teaches Men How To Get Rid Of Premature Ejaculation Forever

2007-05-01T10:12:00.000-05:00

First of all, we need to clarify something. What is premature ejaculation? Well, snoozing science stuff aside, all it really means is that you don’t last as long in bed as you really want to – you ejaculate too soon.

Once I’d learnt that simple fact, I knew I wanted to read about how to solve the problem. After all, what guy wouldn’t love to double, triple, or quadruple their sexual endurance?

And that’s where the Prejaculation guide comes in. This book is truly like the Holy Grail for men who want to improve their sexual endurance and performance. It covers all the angles, from what to eat to increase the volume of your loads, to how to achieve total control over your arousal levels during sex and continue making love for as long as you want!

So, how does it do it?

Well, it’s a step-by-step thing, made really simple to follow and use. No complicated theories or impractical advice, just plain easy to understand info. It contains exercises and routines to strengthen your PC muscle (the thing that controls when you cum), specific advice on which sex positions you should and shouldn’t use and in what order is best, and everything important is illustrated with photos and diagrams to make it even more straightforward to learn and use. It’s like a book you’d find in a bookstore, except only available online (which is perfect really – anonymous, instant download, guaranteed, etc.)

If you have a problem with premature ejaculation, or just want to be the very best you can be in bed, check out the eBook at Prejaculation.com – I haven’t regretted it and neither will you!

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A simple method of arousal control that’ll boost your ‘lasting power’ in bed!

2007-04-30T10:48:00.000-05:00

The causes of premature ejaculation (reaching your climax sooner than you’d like) are grossly misunderstood. As such, many men think that their sexual performance – especially how long they’re able to last before climaxing – is unchangeable and not able to be improved. This is completely untrue.
Just as you can lift weights to add muscle to your skinny frame, or practice your golf swing to lower your handicap, you can improve your sexual prowess and eradicate premature ejaculation forever.
One of the best ways to MASSIVELY improve your sexual arousal control in bed is by understanding your Point of No Return. Your Point of No Return, or PoNR, is the split-second before you climax and ejaculate. It’s that fleeting moment which, once passed, means you’ve completely lost control of your sexual arousal and that ejaculation is imminent and unavoidable. Most men know when they hit their own personal PoNR simply because they quickly become aware of the fact that they’re about to climax – an intense ‘glow’ of pleasurable sensations is usually what clues them in.
However, just because most of us guys know when we’ve lost control by passing our PoNR, doesn’t mean that we’re able to use that knowledge to extend and improve our performance – just that we’re shamefully aware of when it’s almost over.
Here’s what most guys do:
For the first couple of minutes of love-making, which is usually just the start of the first sexual position, they perform care-free – premature ejaculation feels like a distant problem not worth worrying about. After all, so far so good!
A short while later, because of rapidly heightened pleasure sensations, they’ll suddenly become aware of their PoNR. They know that if they don’t change something RIGHT NOW – either by stopping the sex or massively slowing it down – they’ll ejaculate prematurely. Unbeknownst to them, however, their fate for this sexual encounter has been sealed. Properly controlling their sexual arousal from this point on is going to be an uphill struggle. In short, they’re fighting a losing battle.
So, what SHOULD the guy in the example above have done? How could he have used his PoNR to reverse and ultimately control his sexual arousal? And, therefore, extend and improve his performance?
The answer lies in WHEN you take action. The guy in our example above, like so many millions of men, waited until right before reaching his PoNR to recognise that he was in trouble – he did this because up until feeling that sudden rush of pleasure down below he thought he was performing well and that his arousal was under control. However, he didn’t realise that his arousal levels has been increasing quickly and silently.
What YOU must do is establish a pleasure scale in your mind that ranges from 1 to 10. 1 on the pleasure represents no arousal – how you feel before sex begins. 10 is the Point of No Return – the moment when nothing you could possibly do would lower your arousal and give you back control over your sexual performance.
Imagine the Pleasure Scale in your head, with 1 at the bottom and 10 at the top and follow the 4 point plan below. Doing so will give you an improved ability to recognize when your arousal levels are increasing too quickly and thereby allow you to take action and use some select methods and techniques to DECREASE your arousal and continue on with great sex…without ever stopping or otherwise interrupting your love-making. That, my friend, is the mark of a true sexual legend.
The 4 Point Plan:
1. From when the second sex begins till the moment you’re READY to climax, keep the pleasure scale in mind.
2. Every so often, take a mental note of where you are on the pleasure scale. Have you reached the halfway point yet? Are you around a 2 or 3? Keep identifying where you currently are on the pleasure scale – doing so allows you to never do what the guy in the example above did - lose track and therefore lose control.
3. When you feel you’ve reached around the 6 mark on the pleasure scale, think about where you are in the love-making session. If you’re only a couple of minutes in, then proceed to step 4 of this 4 point plan. If you’re over halfway through how long you’d LIKE to last, then continue on regardless.4. Before you reach 7 or 8 on the pleasure scale, CHANGE something to decrease your arousal levels. Whether it’s your sexual position, the strength or speed of your strokes or the depth and quality of your breathing, altering your sexual technique at this point of the pleasure scale will give you back your control and thereby allow you to extend your performance and boost your lasting power.
Using this simple formula, of regaining control 2 or 3 steps BEFORE their PoNR, instead of immediately prior to it, the majority of men are able to almost double their staying power. You can, too, so give it a try!
Edward White helps men with premature ejaculation and is the author of "The Ultimate Orgasm and Ejaculation Control Manual".
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HypnoDate Review: A New Guide That Details How Any Guy Can Become a Legend With The Ladies… Hypnotically!

2007-04-26T08:35:00.000-05:00

I’m by no means clueless when it comes to talking to and getting on with the opposite sex, but at the same I’m definitely not what I’d call “good.” My Game needs some work. I guess that explains why I was looking through so many attraction and seduction guides on the net. To be honest, most are pretty bad because they all cover the same stuff from the same angle. Smile, do this, do that. It’s not exactly the magic answer us guys are looking for. But don’t stop reading just yet, ‘cos I think I might have found one that finally hits the spot – the jackpot!

It’s called HypnoDate. This guide takes a whole new, radical approach to thinking about the pick-up game and makes it super simple for guys to learn all the new techniques they need to be successful with the opposite sex. For example, the hypnotic techniques it describes to you that tell you exactly how to be 100% confident and charismatic, even if you’re talking to a catwalk quality model. I’d never even heard of this kind of stuff, even though I’d read loads of books on psychology and social dynamics. It was like a brand new education (one I wish I’d had 5 years ago!).

The guide is able to be accessed at Hypnodate.com (accessed is an understatement…once I’d bought it I was INSTANTLY able to begin reading and learning). And because, unlike most sites, they let you download the chunky book, I was able to print it out and read it whenever and wherever I wanted.

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How to pick up women – using rejection to pave the way to TRUE success

2007-04-24T11:10:00.000-05:00

Most men aren’t skilful or successful when it comes to meeting and dating women. There are two main reasons for this: they don’t get out there and sell themselves, meet women and make connections. And when, once in every blue moon, they do try it on with a girl, they fall flat on their faces, not knowing how to handle the situation, the conversation, the interaction and attraction. There’s a single word that ties these two reasons for failure together, it’s rejection.

Men who would love to meet and date a beautiful girl or two choose not to go out and actually try to make it happen, on the most part, because of a deep-seated fear of rejection. They hate the idea that they might get shot down and embarrassed. And they know that if they try their hardest and STILL get rejected, they definitely have no hope with women, now or ever. So, they prefer to stay at home with the vague ambition that one day they might make something happen. On the other hand, there are men out there that do try to meet and get together with girls – and, unfortunately, they get rejected every now and then. Once it’s happened a couple of times, those brush-offs take their toll on the guy: his confidence dwindles, his sense of humor begins to fade, and most noticeably, his motivation vanishes. He becomes like 80% of the rest of the male population: a dreamer and not a do’er.

The first thing you need to do is recognise the POSITIVE function rejection serves. You need to define it in your mind. What is it and what does it mean? Rejection often comes in the following forms:

1. You’ve been talking to a girl for a while and things seem to be going well but when you ask to see her again or suggest swapping numbers she suddenly freezes up on you and shuts you out.

2. You try to get talking to a girl but she only gives you the minimal amount of recognition possible and doesn’t allow you to start a real conversation.

3. You’ve been on a couple of dates with a girl but have yet to take it further. When you try to progress the relationship, she clams up and becomes distant and seemingly uninterested.

Whatever type of rejection you’ve experience or fear the most, you need to fully recognise what it is. It’s a sign that one or more components of your game – that is, your ability to be successful with women – isn’t functioning correctly. It’s like a flashing red light in a submarine, it’s telling you something ain’t right and, most importantly, that you need to DO something to fix it. That’s the key point most men consistently miss – they think being rejected is the end of the line, game over. In fact, it’s simply a changing of the tracks on your path to success. Consider the following important points whenever you feel rejection negatively controlling your ability to do well with the opposite sex:

1. If a girl rejects your advances when you introduce yourself or try to start a conversation, it means she has decided that, for whatever reason, you aren’t someone she wants to get to know. However, remember this absolutely critical fact: she’s made her decision based on how you presented yourself in the short amount of time she knew/knows you. Rethinking how you act, speak and behave can produce a reaction that falls at the complete opposite end of the scale from rejection and failure: one of success and triumph. Don’t let a single brush-off impact your motivation or confidence, simply see it as a sign that you need to alter and rethink your strategy.

2. Never take things personally when you’re playing the seduction game. Although a girl might not be interested in you, it doesn’t mean she’s necessarily right to feel that way or correct in the assumption she’s made of you. People make snap decisions and have knee-jerk reactions to people, places and situations every day, in the positive AND negative. Your goal is to make a good first impression and exude a strong sense of confidence and relaxation. Once you do that, your bad luck seems to magically disappear and a new long-term streak of good fortune begins. (Which is actually thanks to the fact that you didn’t let rejection get you down and instead used it as a sign that you needed to change something.)

If you can remember the concepts above and use them when ‘out in the field’, you’ll notice an almost hypnotic effect most men out there would kill to have themselves. Because, you see, it’s when you yourself can brush-off the brush-offs that real success happens and also what leads to you meeting and getting to know the girl of your dreams.

W. Wilcox is the author of HypnoDate – a revolutionary manual that teaches men how to use special hypnotic principles to become masters of attraction and seduction, without the need for good looks, money or a flash car.

How to Seduce a Woman by Using Visualization Techniques

2007-04-23T09:01:00.000-05:00

The human mind is a powerful thing. And although its complexity and intricacy currently stretches well beyond our comprehension, we DO still have a solid grasp of what it’s capable of. It’s the driving force for inventors, philosophers, scientists and specialists all over the world. Some of our brain’s uses, however, are less well known and more infrequently used than others. Take, for example, visualisation techniques.

Visualisation techniques are most commonly associated with people who are striving to achieve success in areas of physical excellence: athletes, body builders, endurance specialists, explorers and martial artists all employ the power of visualization to help them achieve their goals. But what is it exactly?

A common misconception is that visualization is the act of imagining something to help yourself achieve an end goal. This explanation, although not a million miles away from the truth, doesn’t accurately represent the true concept of visualization. Visualization involves truly envisioning two things in your head, with as much clarity and detail as possible. First is the act itself. For example, leaping from the starting blocks at the crack of the gun, your muscles tightening, your body springing into action, each stride long and powerful driving you forward with super speed and swiftness. Second is the outcome: such as the winning of the race. You picture yourself being the first to cross that white line, decelerating to the sound of a roaring crowd. Flash bulbs explode and while your chest heaves for air, you smile in the comfort of knowing you succeeded and came first. The result of visualising both of these concepts is a powerful one – your mind and body become more prepared and more capable because you’ve already practised and gone through the motions of what is to come. Your attitude is more positive and productive and you gain the edge you need to truly succeed.

Visualization can be used in a variety of fields to help you succeed, even in attracting and seducing women. The same principle above applies, you must truly act out in your mind both the act of meeting a girl and the outcome of whatever it is you’re looking for (be it sex, a relationship, or whatever.) Here’s a few pointers to help you do this:

1. Make a real effort to visualize each and every detail of what you want to happen during the act of meeting and talking to a woman. See yourself smiling and saying hi to a girl in a bookstore and her replying with a shy smile and glint in her eye. Picture laughing and joking and being flirtatious – even envisage small details, like you both taking a sip of your drink at the same time. Each and every visualised moment prepares your conscious and subliminal mind for actual real-life encounters. The more you visualize and the greater detail in which you do it, the more capable and prepared you become.

2. Once you’ve visualised the act of meeting and conversing with a girl, foresee leaving the bookstore or bar and going back to your/her place. Whatever outcome is preferable to you, picture it…see the colours, hear the sounds, feel the textures and smell the aromas.

3 Use visualization when you’re at home AND when you’re out looking for girls that catch your attention. Doing both ensures your mind is programmed in the most prepared, positive state possible: nerves disappear and confidence grows.

W. Wilcox is the author of HypnoDate – a revolutionary manual that teaches men how to use special hypnotic principles to become masters of attraction and seduction, without the need for good looks, money or a flash car.

How to pick up a beautiful woman: Eradicating self-limiting beliefs

2007-04-20T10:54:00.000-05:00

What dictates how successful a person can become in any given field? Is it chance, fortune, good luck? No.

Take an athlete for example, regardless of their chosen discipline, they must WORK at becoming the best. Even if they got lucky with their genes, have a good build or quick reactions, it is absolutely vital they learn, understand and PRACTICE whatever sport it is they want to master. If they don’t, they will never be number one, or even anywhere close. The very same principle applies to attracting and seducing women, quite simply, the looks or assets you were or weren’t blessed with naturally mean nothing if you cannot master the psychological side of the game. For example, there’s a guy who looks like Brad Pitt’s better looking long-lost brother, his body, hair and dress-sense are all flawless. But, when he opens his mouth…nothing. His attitude, personality and character fall completely flat and instantly put off every woman in the room. He’s gone from being a mysterious, handsome stranger, to an unexciting and tedious guy, who’s good for nothing except looking at and admiring – which gets very boring, very fast. Now, the reverse. There’s a guy who doesn’t immediately stand out of the crowd because of what he looks or dresses like or because of the car he’s just rolled up in. Women are fairly neutral towards him, they neither feel attracted to him or turned off. Then, he talks and it’s like a fire has been lit, he’s fun, charming and great to be around – in short, massively attractive.

If you want to be that first guy, I don’t know what to suggest, except perhaps painful, expensive surgery. But if you’d rather resemble the second man (as any sane guy would), you need to do something a little different – you need to eradicate self-limiting beliefs. Self-limiting beliefs are the internal thoughts and feelings that hold you back and restrict your ability to succeed. They’re irrational and counter-productive thoughts that everyone has, but very few people try to get rid of – which is why so few men are truly successful with women. Here are a couple of examples of self-limiting beliefs:

1. “Nah, she’s too good-looking. She wouldn’t be interested in a guy like me.”

2. “Women can sense inexperience and won’t give a guy the time of day if they think he’s not sophisticated or experienced.”

3. “Girls only want sex with strings attached and would never consider sleeping with me unless I have money or a powerful job.”

4. “That girl’s way too popular – just look at the guys who are already all over her. She’s rejecting them so would definitely say no to me.”

The crazy thing with self-limiting beliefs is that they only restrict YOU and you alone. They do this because they are not logical, true facts that are widely accepted as fundamental truths. They’re manifested in your mind because you feel nervous and apprehensive – it’s your body’s way of protecting itself, just like it would have thousands of years ago to stop you getting into physical danger. These days, the only danger is that you miss a golden opportunity to hook up with a great, sexy girl. Here are 3 simple rules to always remember, use them to get rid of self-limiting beliefs.

Rule 1. Ground yourself in the present and don’t think about the past or potential future. If you’re in a bar looking at a girl from afar, forget about times gone by that you cocked up a first impression. Furthermore, don’t try to predict what could go wrong or awry. Your goal, of meeting and getting together with a hot female, is a positive one – so keep all thoughts before, during and after meeting her positive, too.

Rule 2. Don’t let other people mould your perception of yourself and the situation you’re in. Forget about the guys around you, all trying to impress girls and assert themselves as alpha males. When you show a care-free, easy-going attitude to how to move, talk and behave you become infinitely more attractive to women than all the men who are blatantly trying too hard.

Rule 3. Let negative thoughts and phrases, like those above, slip completely from your consciousness. Looks, wealth and social status mean little when they aren’t accompanied by a strong, attractive persona and personality. Let your words and confident body language take precedence and forget all about superficial possessions and all-too-common “good looks.”

W. Wilcox is the author of HypnoDate – a revolutionary manual that teaches men how to use special hypnotic principles to become masters of attraction and seduction, without the need for good looks, money or a flash car.

Grocery store pickup and seduction

2007-04-19T11:01:00.000-05:00

Grocery stores are great places to meet women – they gotta buy food, right? And it offers a great opportunity for you to seem like a helpless male who needs a little feminine wisdom to get him through.

Here’s the plan: Go up to a woman who’s browsing meat (or looking at fruit or reading labels on laundry detergent or whatever). For instance, if it’s meat, look over the meat, too, picking some up and reading the labels then setting it back. Turn to her and say, “I’m hopeless at this, I can never pick good steaks. It’s always too tough or too fatty or just not fresh. Can you help me out?” Women love giving advice, and you just gave her a golden opportunity she can’t refuse. She’ll give some tips. Ask her questions, like what color to look for, if you should buy leaner cuts, etc. When she’s done and you’ve selected some steaks or a package of hamburger or whatever, say, “Thanks so much, I really appreciate this. This may be the first good meal I’ve had in ages. Let me repay you – let me make you dinner. You already know I’ve got good steak.” She’ll be a little taken by surprise, but very pleased with the attention. Say, “By the way, I’m Doug. And what can I call you?” She may accept the dinner invitation and if so, great, get the number and start planning that menu! But since she doesn’t really know you well, she may hesitate to go to your house for a meal. So if she seems a bit reluctant, say, “You know, I know you really don’t know me and might be shy about coming to my place for dinner so soon. So how about I take you out for a nice meal, and then you can see what a harmless guy I am, and maybe later I’ll cook you that dinner. Come on, you’ve got nothing to lose and you’ll gain a free dinner at the restaurant of your choice. Besides, I owe you. Your advice has saved me from a lifetime of eating bad cuts of meat. You’ve got to let me pay you back.” She’ll be flattered and laughing at this point, and most likely writing down those digits for you!

If you met talking over fruit or laundry detergent, you obviously can’t offer to cook that up for her (well, you could, but you’ll score crazy points instead of brownie points). But you can still thank her and offer to pay her back by going for a cup of coffee or dinner sometime. Play up how she’s saved you from wearing horribly dingy clothes by helping with that detergent or saved you from catching God knows what kind of rare tropical disease imparted by eating squishy, bad fruit. Make a joke, get her laughing, and get those digits! Supermarket scores are great, because women love it when they think a man who was just minding his business, doing shopping, saw her and was so taken that he couldn’t help but make a move. Female vanity has its uses, fellas!

Target the shy girls for easy pickings

2007-04-17T11:27:00.000-05:00

In any group of girls, there’s usually one who’s getting all the attention. You know, she’s really animated, talking a lot, outgoing, a lot of guys are hitting on her. You can bet some of the other girls in the group are kind of shy and are feeling left out and a bit jealous – and they’re dying for their share of attention! Give it to them, and it will be like throwing them a lifeline – they’ll cling on to you to save them from the horror of being a chick in the shadow of some other woman!

Here’s what you do: Scope out the girl in the group who seems kind of shy, who’s looking around for attention but can’t seem to get any because her girlfriend is dancing on the tabletops or just being really loud and boisterous - and being hit on by every guy in the place. Go up to your shy girl and say, “I just can’t believe it.” She’ll say, “What?” “I can’t believe why everyone is making such a fuss over your friend when there’s such a beautiful woman sitting over here in the corner. We need to do something about that. Can I join you?” She’ll be very flattered, and thankful someone noticed her! Ask her name, give her yours, and offer to buy a drink. Make sure you don’t say anything negative about her loud, flirty friend – this will turn her off. Give her the attention she’s been craving, tell her she’s got beautiful eyes. Ask her about herself, what she does for a living, where she lives – women love to talk as much as they love compliments, and they love it when someone takes an interest. And after seeing her friend be the one to get the spotlight all night, she’ll lap up the attention like crazy. Tell her you enjoyed meeting her and would like to take her out sometime, then get her number. She’ll be all too happy to give it – handing over a phone number will show her friends that she’s getting male attention, too! She’ll be thankful you saved her from sitting unnoticed, and you’ll be on your way to one very hot date with a very grateful gal!

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The name and flower bluff

2007-04-16T09:00:00.000-05:00

Think you’ve got to be great looking to get a woman’s attention? Wrong! If you know what to say and do, you can have any woman dying to be at your side. This is a little devious, but what’s the harm? Try this: Go up to a woman and ask her, “How’s work, Susan?” She’ll tell you she’s not Susan. “Oh, you’re not Susan Moore who works at the Citizens’ Bank?” She’ll say something like, “No, I’m Karen Miller that works at Landover Real Estate.” Then just say, “Oh, well I’m Doug Jones (offer to shake hands), and I’m sorry for the mistake.” Smile and walk away.

In two or three days, send flowers to her at her work place. Include a card saying, “We just met for a moment, but I can’t stop thinking about you. Meet me for a drink after work? Doug.” Include your phone number, too, just in case she wants to call and thank you before you get in touch with her. And believe me, she’ll want to thank you. And you’ll score major brownie points because she’ll be thrilled to get flowers at work – all the other women in the office will be buzzing around wondering who sent them, and the object of your desire will be excited by the surprise and by the attention from her co-workers. Give her a call later that day after you know the flowers have arrived, and say, “Hi, this is Doug. Remember me, I’m the one at the dry cleaners (or wherever you met her) who mistook you for Susan from the bank? Did you get the flowers?” She’ll say yes, tell you they’re beautiful and unexpected. Say, “I know this is a little crazy, out of the blue and all, but you just seemed so nice, and I was kicking myself that I didn’t ask you out before. I know we don’t really know each other, but I’d like to change that. How about going for that drink later?”

She may not remember you well, after all, she only met you for a minute, but man oh man is she ever going to be flattered! Someone is telling her she’s so hot that after a few seconds in her presence, he can’t stop thinking about her and is sending flowers?! Women eat that stuff up, they think flowers are so thoughtful and romantic! How could she turn down a drink with someone so thoughtful, someone who made her feel gorgeous? She can’t! Besides, she’d feel ungrateful if she didn’t at least give you a shot. This is a piece of cake pick-up technique, and it makes you seem like Prince Charming! Like taking candy from a baby, fellas, trust me.

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Get in touch with your feminine side, so you can get inside hers

2007-04-13T08:43:00.000-05:00

Some women are just out there waiting to be hit on, and they’re sending signals. You just have to pick up on the signals, then striking up a conversation is a piece of cake because that’s what the woman was waiting for from anybody. It might as well be you!

Go someplace where people hang out, like a bar or bookstore. If there’s a woman at the bar who’s just sort of looking bored, who keeps looking around the room or even getting up to walk around the room, that woman is looking for action. Go up to her and comment on something about the place, like “Hi. It sure is quiet in here tonight.” Or “Hi, I can’t believe how packed this place is.” She was just waiting for someone to talk to, and this is all she’ll need to be off and running. Let her lead and follow along! Maybe throw in a comment like, “What’s a beautiful woman like you doing sitting here all alone?” Don’t say that at first, because women hear cheesy lines like that all the time. But if you say it a few minutes after conversation has started, it erases any doubt from her mind as to whether you’re hitting on her or you’re just someone who’s making idle conversation but not looking to meet. Give her the cheesy pick-up line that includes a compliment – and women love compliments! – and she’ll know what you’re after.

At a bookstore, check out the chicks over by the magazine racks. If there’s one who just keeps browsing titles, idly picking up a mag and flipping through the pages, all the while looking around to check out the other people there – that’s a gal just waiting for someone to take notice of HER. Do it, and you’ll find a woman ready and willing to talk to you – and probably hoping you’ll ask for her number!

Just go up to her, tell her the magazine she’s reading looks interesting, or that you already read that and there’s a great article in there, or (if it’s a woman’s magazine) that you’ve been tempted to read “Cosmo” or whatever it is just to see what kind of stuff those mags tell women. Ask her if she thinks men would find any useful information about women in there. She’ll be off and running with stories of how silly the articles are, or how they might be interesting to men. Talk a while, and then ask her to sit down for coffee to chat more. Then ask for her number. She was looking to meet, so she’ll be more than willing to hand over those digits!

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Seduce the ladies by asking for a hand

2007-04-12T10:01:00.000-05:00

Ok dudes, if you want to meet the ladies, sometimes it helps to get a little extreme. Unique can be a good thing.

Go to a clothing store, like a department store that sells clothes for men and women. Find a spot in the men’s section that’s nearest to the women’s clothes. Look through the racks, grabbing a few things you’d like to try on. When you spot a babe you’d like to meet, make your move.

Go over to her, and say, “Excuse me, but you look like you really know how to dress. I’ve been shopping all day, and I just can’t find anything. You obviously know about clothes, could you give me an opinion?” You can say you’re trying to find something for work, like dressy casual, or just say you’re terrible at picking out clothes and ask her to help you find the right shirts and jeans or suit or whatever it is that you really are interested in buying. Just pick the type of clothes that you would want to wear with this woman on your first date – if you want to go to a movie, nice jeans and shirt would do, or if you want to impress her with a nice restaurant or the theater, be shopping for this kind of outfit. Because a date is what you’re really going to need the clothes for, but she doesn’t know it yet!

So you’ve complimented her taste in clothes – score brownie points! – and you’ve asked her advice – score more points, because women love to give advice! Women also love to shop, and now they get to help you shop. That’s an offer too good to refuse.

So show her what you’ve picked out, ask what she thinks of the styles and colors. Maybe she’ll go and pick some different things from a rack. Then say, “This is so great, would you mind if I tried these on so you could tell me what you think?” Women love that, too! Why do you think they go to stores in groups? They want to try on clothes and they want to help their friends pick stuff out, too. It’s like 2-for-1 shopping, a double fix!

So once she settles on what you look best in, thank her. “Thanks so much, I really appreciate it. I mean it, you’ve really helped me a lot. Let me make it up to you. How about dinner next week? Come on, you already know I’ve got something decent to wear.”

She’ll be flattered and laughing at your joke. And she’ll be thrilled she found a man who let her pick out his clothes! You’re in, and you won’t have the added stress of figuring out what to wear on the first date! This is a 2-for-1 special for you, too!

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Pickup in the Park Using Your Dog

2007-04-09T08:02:00.000-05:00

Check this out – You want hot babes dying to give you their number? Hell, yeah, you do! Tired of always having to chase after them? Of course you are! So why not get them to come to you?
There’s a simple trick that has the babes flocking to you. It’s as easy as a walk in the park – if you bring a dog along for the stroll, that is.

Yeah, you’ve heard about dogs being a babe magnet – because it’s true! Time to start believing it and try it out for yourself. And if you don’t have a dog, be the nice guy and offer to take a friend’s pooch for a walk once in a while. The dog doesn’t have to belong to you to have that same magnetic effect on women.

It works like this: Woman sees man with cute, furry dog. Woman can’t resist going up to pet and talk to dog. Woman is feeling all warm and fuzzy and friendly and starts asking man about dog. “He’s so cute! What’s his name? What kind is he? Can I pet him?” All you have to do is be ready with the basic info. Like, “Thanks, his name’s Butch. He’s no kind, just a mutt, aren’t ya boy? But he’s a sweet mutt. Go ahead; he loves to be petted by beautiful women.”

From here, ask if she has pets, learn about them, what kind, their names. If she doesn’t have a dog now, ask if she ever did. Find out about it, then ask her advice on your dog. Like, “Since you used to have a dog, maybe you’ll know this, but Butch wants to bark all night long. Any idea what I should do?” This doesn’t have to be the exact question, just pick something where she can give advice and an opinion. She’ll feel needed, and you just have to act interested and impressed with the advice. If she never had a dog, share a fuzzy story about the dog and why they make good pets. Then say, “Ya know, Butch is really digging you. He never takes to strangers like this. I think he’d be really disappointed if he didn’t get to see you again. Care to join us here for a picnic tomorrow?” Now you’ve been sweet and flattering and funny in one fell stroke, and the woman will be eating out of the palm of your hand. Get her number, set a date. Just pack some wine and a blanket with that picnic basket, and you’ll be ready to rock!

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The Laundromat Pickup

2007-04-06T09:01:00.000-05:00

Ok, you’ve probably heard that Laundromats are great pick up places, better than a singles bar – that’s because they are! Maybe not better, but certainly a great alternative that’s just as good. You can pretend your entire motive is to wash clothes, and that you’re not on the make. The woman won’t have that feeling like you’re just trying to pick her up if you strike up a chat here – even if that’s exactly what you’re doing!

What really helps you out here is that women like to talk, and they love to give advice – especially to “helpless” men! First of all, pick a good Laundromat – meaning one where you’ve seen lots of attractive women who aren’t dragging a bunch of kids with them or wearing wedding rings. Basically, pick one in a neighborhood with lots of young, single women – they’ll be using the Laundromat close to home. And don’t worry if you already have a washing machine at home, it’s worth the trip out and a little change to meet women! If you meet someone that eventually makes it back to your place and discovers you have a machine at home, just tell her it was broken, or better yet, be honest and say you went to the Laundromat hoping to meet someone, and that was the best decision you ever made because you met her.

But let’s back up, first you’ve got to meet her! So go to the Laundromat with your basket of clothes – no detergent. Make sure you don’t bring anything a woman might find disgusting – like really dingy, holey underwear, badly stained
T-shirts, or socks that used to be white but now look like you walked through mud in them. However, something slightly stained won’t hurt – like a grass stain on your jeans or chocolate sauce on a shirt. You can use this later to help with the conversation

Go in, plop your laundry basket down on a machine near one or more ladies you wouldn’t mind picking up, and start digging through the basket like you’re looking for something. Then say out loud to yourself, “Oh, man, I forgot the detergent!” Laundromats usually have a vending machine selling detergent, so go over and start browsing. Act like you don’t know which one to pick, then go to the woman you want to chat up and say, “Excuse me, they don’t have my regular detergent here and I don’t know what to use. Can you help me pick one out?” Women can’t resist an opportunity to give advice, and they love the idea that men might be helpless when it comes to some chores, like laundry. This is where, if you’ve got the grass stain or whatever, you can bring that up and say you don’t know what to do to get it out. She may come over and show you how to rub detergent on the stain, etc. After you get the detergent, go back to your machine, fumble around, and go back to her and say, “I’m sorry to keep bothering you, but these machines are different than what I’m used to and I don’t know what setting to use. Could you give me a hand? I’m sorry to seem so helpless.” Milk the helpless bit for all it’s worth. Ask her how much detergent to use, what colors you can wash together, and what temperature to set the water at – whatever you can think of.

Also, if the Laundromat doesn’t have a vending machine for detergent, ask the woman if you can borrow some of hers. Insist on paying her back by paying for her washing or dryer use. Either way, once you’ve got her talking, keep chatting about clothes as long as that stays interesting – once it starts to get lame and boring, ditch the topic! Make sure and introduce yourself and get her name, then start asking her about herself. Find out where she works, what she does for fun, what movies or bands she likes, what her favorite types of food are. You can use that info as she’s packing up her clothes to leave – Say, “Thanks so much for the help. I’d love to pay you back by taking you out for some Italian food (or going to hear that band you like, or see that movie you said you’d been dying to see.)”

And one last thing, be ready with an explanation of why you’re using this particular Laundromat if it’s not in your neighborhood, just in case she asks. Make sure you pick one that’s not too far from home, and just say the one in your neighborhood was full and you didn’t want to wait for a machine. Now grab some change, a pile of dirty clothes, and get ready to bag that babe!

If you’ve found this free tip interesting and want to learn more about exactly how to talk to women and what to say, check out Rachel’s website > Click Here

Fishing For Women With A Wingman

2007-04-05T10:10:00.000-05:00

Want to pick up women? Get a friend to help you out! First, stand or sit a few feet away from a woman or group of women and seem to be having a light-hearted, joking disagreement with your pal. “You’re wrong!” “No, you are!” “I’m telling you, you don’t know what you’re talking about!” Then keep talking, but a little quieter so that the girl probably won’t hear, then say, “Fine by me!” Remember, don’t act really angry, act like a couple of friends jokingly disputing a small thing.

Now, go up to the woman you like (if she’s with a friend, either your buddy can try to pick up her friend or he can play wing man and keep the friend occupied while you hit on your babe) and say, “Excuse me, but we’re trying to settle a bet and we really need your help. We have agreed to let you settle the argument, and we’ll abide by whatever you say.” Now you’ve really got her attention, because she’s dying of curiosity to know what the bet is, and she’s flattered that you’re putting her in charge of casting the deciding vote for the argument. Then ask something like, “Ok, my buddy here says Marsha was the oldest daughter on The Brady Bunch, but I know she was the middle one.” Your pal can jump in here and say, “No way!” You don’t have to use The Brady Bunch, just pick some show that was a huge hit within the last 20 or 30 years that people still talk about and joke about, and that’s still played in reruns on TV. Don’t pick anything obscure – go for something that everybody knows the answer to. Other choices might be shows like “Cheers,” and you can bet that Norm was the name of the postman, while your friend thinks it was Cliff. Just pick something that for your age group and where you live, everybody is going to know the answer. If you pick a current show it won’t work as well, because it will seem like a set up if you don’t know the name of the biggest star on the biggest hit show on air now. But people do jokingly argue about things in older shows, and the nostalgia value of a show you loved growing up can get you – and the girl you want – laughing at the memory.

So now she’ll say something like, “I hate to break this to you, but your friend is right. Marsha was the oldest daughter.” Act a little shocked or let down, like, “Ah man! Are you sure? Well, all right, a bet’s a bet. It looks like I’m the one buying the next round,” you say this last part to your friend, making sure to smile and shake your head, maybe patting him on the shoulder – real friendly and casual. The woman’s probably laughing about the whole bet over a cheesy TV show – but that means she’s also entertained and enjoying herself. Now turn back to the woman and say, “Thanks for helping us out, we could’ve argued that all night. Seriously, we are that crazy! Let me pay you back, what are you drinking?” When she tells you and you order the drink, say, “Do you mind if we join you?” Since you’ve already made her laugh with your funny bet and you’ve bought her a drink, she won’t refuse a seat at her table. Make very sure that while you’re “arguing” the point with your friend before you talk to the woman in the first place that you don’t mention specifically what the bet is about – someone else may overhear and jump in to offer the answer, blowing your plan.

The great thing about this conversation starter, though, is it can work lots of places – it doesn’t have to be a bar. You can do this in a coffee shop and offer to buy a cup of coffee, you can do this in a fast food restaurant and say you owe the pal a beer or a coffee, then ask the ladies to join you (this may mean moving on to a coffee shop or bar, which is just fine!), and you can even do it in a park. There you’d say the bet was for a drink or snack of some sort from a street vender (if there is one in the park), or that you were heading to the coffee shop around the corner, and get her to come, too.

The next question is, now that you’ve got a hottie sitting down with you for a drink, what do you say now? Easy – check out “Conversation King” for step-by-step guidelines on how to keep the conversation flowing and bag your babe!

How to Pick Up Girls: The Power of ‘Yes’

2007-04-03T16:09:00.000-05:00

Everyone, male or female, feels an important need to be consistent in the things they say, do and feel. If we’re flaky and liable to change at the drop of a hat what we believe or have promised, we know that people are likely to judge and mistrust us. This commonly felt sense of importance regarding the need to be consistent within ourselves can be exploited when attempting to seduce a woman. One seduction technique that makes use of this concept is called ‘The Power of Yes’.

Here’s a common scenario most men have experienced at some point or another in their lives. You find yourself talking to a girl, maybe you approached her and consciously started a conversion, or perhaps the chat began unplanned, naturally. Either way, you’re enjoying each other’s company. After a while, it dawns on you that you and the girl you’re talking to are going to have to go your separate ways pretty soon, which poses a slight dilemma: how can you make it so this isn’t the first and last time you two are together and instead arrange for it to progress into something further? The obvious route to take is to perform a ‘closer’.

A closer is when you make a conscious effort to get a girl’s number, swap both your numbers, arrange to meet up again soon, or otherwise cross that social “getting to know you” line. Thing is, you don’t want your closer to crash and burn, you want the girl to happily agree to whatever it is you suggest. So how can help ensure that happens? You use psychology, specifically, ‘The Power of Yes’ technique. The technique involves getting the girl you’re interacting with to give several positive ‘yes’ responses to your questions in quick succession. Doing so helps develop an internal sense of positivity in the female that carries over in her mind to when you perform the actual closer and tips the balance in the direction of agreement to your request or suggestion.

You can do this by using subtle and casual responses after she says things, like: “Really?” and “Do you?” Match your response to what she’s just said and ensure it takes the form of a question that you’re sure will prompt a ‘yes’ response from her. Getting between 3 and 6 of these positive responses is usually enough to allow the principle to work.

At the same time, avoid asking questions or saying things near the end of your conversation, just before you’re about to close, that could possibly evoke negative reactions or “no” responses from the female.

The reason this technique works so well is because of the natural human phenomenon mentioned at the start of this article – that people feel it’s important to be consistent and congruent in the things they say and the situation they’re in. After responding to you positively half a dozen times, a natural inclination is created in the female’s mind for saying ‘yes’ – she’s gotten used to it. When you finally suggest going for a bite to eat tomorrow or visiting that museum together you told her about, the most natural and consistent response in her mind is a responding “Yes!”…it just feels right.

The Art of Seduction by Conversation: Using ‘The Add-On Principle’ to Get the Girl

2007-04-02T12:21:00.000-05:00

Persuasion is a universally recognisable component of our society. You see people influencing others everywhere you go: women trying to talk themselves out of speeding tickets, salesmen attempting to convince a potential buyer that a product’s for them, defence attorneys arguing that their client is innocent – persuasion is everywhere, used by all of us, all the time.

Somewhere it’s especially noticeable (and vital, if you want to be successful) is in the game of attraction and seduction. For a man to pick-up a girl – that is: find, approach, talk to her and arrange to take it further – he MUST understand and be able to use persuasive psychology. And it’s that fact many men are surprised by when they hear it – that being successful with women isn’t a God given talent or a roll of the dice; it’s a skill like anything else. Today you’re going to learn a little about that skill. We’re going to look at a special persuasive psychological technique that, when used, massively increases your chances with the ladies. It’s called ‘The Add-On Principle’.

Picture the scene: You’ve got talking to a girl and been chatting for a little while. You can tell she’s enjoying the conversation and think that she’s quite attracted to you, too. You decide you’d like to make something happen with this girl and see her again real soon but you aren’t sure of the best way to go about making that a reality. You don’t want to ruin the positive dynamic that you’ve worked so hard to create and you definitely don’t want to scare her off or get rejected. So, what can you do? Well, first of all, what do most guys do when they’re in this situation? I’ll tell you, they take one of three routes:

Route #1: CLICHÉD NUMBER REQUEST. The first route has been taken so many millions of times in the past that it’s nowadays almost an act of parody – it’s asking the girl for her number. Taking this route is, 9 times out of 10, a Plan B at best. When you ask a girl for her number you not only give her control of the situation (which means she can very easily say no or slip you a phoney number), you also highlight that moment of the conversation as what it really is: an attempt at picking her up. When she realises this, she’s turned off. No girl likes the idea of being picked-up because it seems sleazy and dangerous. For a girl to allow herself to be picked up, it must feel natural and unforced.

Route #2: GOING FOR IT. This route’s most often taken at night, in bars, clubs and parties – namely because the availability of alcohol makes this option seem a good idea. ‘Going for it’ means a guy will try to kiss the girl or cop a feel a little while after talking to her. Perhaps he’ll do it while they dance or as the venue is closing and they’re leaving. Again, it’s a bad idea because it makes the girl feel used and not in control.

Route #3: BOTTLING IT. This option, quite simply, involves choking at the last second – being unable to go through with a ‘closer’. The conversation’s gone great but the guy just doesn’t feel confident enough to propose meeting up again or something along those lines. As you can imagine, taking this route is a bad idea in regards to being successful with women.

So what do you do? The three routes above are bad, so what route can you take? Well, it goes without saying that you HAVE to run the risk of using a ‘closer’ if you want to see the girl again. Therefore, your goal is to make your offer – in whatever form it might take – seem like a natural, obvious, fun option for the girl to take. To achieve this, you should justify what you’re suggesting with a REASON you should both do it. For example: “Let’s swap numbers so we can talk about that book we both like.” Or, “We should get a coffee or hot chocolate some time, because I know a great little place that’s just opened and think you’d really like it.” When you follow up an offer (such as swapping numbers or going for a coffee) with a reason for doing it (to talk about something or because you know a nice little new place) you make the offer seem ATTRACTIVE and a NATURAL thing for the girl to say yes to. This is the essence of ‘The Add-On Principle’. When you employ it, try to always use the words “So” and “Because.” Our minds, when we hear these words, associate them with good reasons, they back things up for us in our heads. You can use this principle any time you want a suggestion you’ve made to a girl to be accepted and agreed to. For example: “Shall we go over and look at the jukebox, so we can put on some tunes we both like?” You’re taking away any hard work the girl needs to do in deciding whether or not she wants to go ahead with what you’re suggesting, simply because you’ve already given her a valid, natural-sounding reason to say “YES!”

Try it…you’ll be amazed at the results.

Rachel Davis is the author of Conversation-King, a guide that teaches men how to attract and seduce women by mastering the art of verbal communication.

Picking Up Women: How to Make Easy, Fun Conversation That Leads to Attraction & Sexual Chemistry

2007-04-02T12:07:00.000-05:00

There are two main ways in which we communicate with others: non-verbal communication and vocal/verbal communication. You probably already know a little about the non-verbal side of things, such as the types of body language that silently signal someone’s nervous, excited or angry. But how about the more obvious but actually less frequently discussed topic of verbal communication: how what we say and how we say it impacts on our lives and goals? That’s the subject we’re going to look at today. Except we’re going to a get a little more specific and delve into how a guy can make easy, fun conversation with a woman, that helps lead to attraction and sexual chemistry between the two of you.

Let’s first get a grasp on a few pieces of background information. First off, how do most men make conversation with a woman they’re attracted to? What do they do right, wrong or completely miss out from their talks with the opposite sex? The best way to answer these questions is simply to identify the mistakes the majority of men out there make – things every guy, for whatever reason, chooses to do when talking to a girl, that hinder – rather than help – his chances of hooking up with her.

Mistake #1: ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS. Lots of men worry that when they start talking to a girl, she won’t say much back. This outcome, standing there – suffering an awkward, embarrassing silence – is so much of a concern that they ask the girl question after question to avoid it. The reason they bombard her with questions is because they think that the best way of getting and keeping the girl talking is by giving her more and more opportunities to say something, no matter what the topic happens to be. Unfortunately, doing this sends out a very negative message. It actually shows that you’re nervous and would prefer her to do most of the talking, which often turns the woman off completely.

Mistake #2: NEVER SHUTTING UP. This is the opposite scenario to the one above, but happens for the same reason. Some men, scared that the girl they’re talking to will up and leave any second, choose to talk endlessly in an effort to keep their attention. Again, this is immediately obvious as a sign of social inexperience and nervousness.

Mistake #3: BORING HER TO DEATH. It’s not easy talking to a girl who’s beautiful, sexy and usually practically unattainable. So when a guy gets chatting to a girl he really likes, who’s hot and confident, he doesn’t want to mess it up – after all, it might not happen again for ages! So, in an attempt to limit the chance of saying something that might ruin the interaction and thus his chances with her, he subconsciously restricts the topics of conversation he brings up. He talks about work, the weather, sports, current affairs, perhaps bombards her with a few questions on those subjects…and generally doesn’t push the boat out much.
Okay, so they’re 3 of the worst mistakes a guy can make when talking to a girl he likes. So let’s flip the coin and look at what he SHOULD be doing.

Objective #1: PROGRESSIVE QUESTIONING. Choose what questions you ask the girl wisely. You don’t want to throw too many her way too quickly. If you do, you give her too much control over the conversation and don’t provide her with a challenge. So, use progressive questioning – ask her questions that she MUST give a detailed response to. Avoid Yes/No questions and instead quiz her on things that require emotion-packed responses. “Do you come her often?” is a terrible question. “What do you think this place could do to make it feel more lively and fun?” is much better, as it not only requires a more detailed reply than a simple “Yes” or “No,” it also probes the girl on what makes her feel good.

Objective #2: Don’t be afraid to let short pauses punctuate your conversation with a girl. Many men panic when they hear a silence and jump in with another question or statement to fill it. Don’t make the same mistake. A confident, dominant guy – the kind of man women love – isn’t afraid of little pauses, because they’re natural and harmless. He simply, waits a second or two, sips his drink, smiles and goes with the flow.

Objective #3: It’s okay to use common topics of conversation when you first get talking to a girl. But move away from the mundane stuff as quickly as you can and instead choose to tell engaging stories. Describe a great holiday you had, an amazing concert you recently went to…make it positive and interesting and you engage the girl’s emotions and make her want to tell YOU about her own good times. When this happens, instant rapport and sexual chemistry is born.

Rachel Davis is the author of Conversation-King, a guide that teaches men how to attract and seduce women by mastering the art of verbal communication.

What is the TRUE average penis size and is it possible to enlarge it NATURALLY?

2007-03-25T15:11:00.000-05:00

The average penis size has been a “bone” of contention for decades and decades. The reason it’s so frequently debated, argued over and worried about is because the issue affects so many people, male and female. For men, a small penis means possible harassment in gym showers and embarrassment in bed. For women it presents a different problem: its below-average size could well limit their sexual pleasure and at the same time inhibit the man’s confidence so much that his sexual performance could also be unsatisfactory.

It’s really no wonder penis size, and the average length and girth of the male anatomy, is talked about so much – by millions of people all over the world, of both sex, it’s almost considered a yardstick for a guy’s manhood. A small penis is bad, while a big, thick penis is good – the line has been clearly drawn in the sand, regardless of whether it’s right or wrong. I’ll tell you right now what the average size is. Forget about the average penis sizes of different races; even if there is a slight difference it won’t affect you much. Here’s the only figure that might: the average size is about 5 and 3 quarter inches in erect length. The average girth is about 5 inches around (which might sound a lot, but wrap a fabric tape measure around your own and it’ll seem much more modest).

Thing is, knowing those numbers doesn’t put most men at ease and I doubt it has you. Why? Because it doesn’t change anything. Yeah, you might be half an inch bigger than average, or perhaps an inch thicker down below than most other guys, but that feeling of inadequacy, of wanting more, is probably still there. It’s completely natural, too. Let’s say you’re 6 and a half inches long when erect, knowing you’re an inch and a bit bigger than average is great, right? But at the very same time, you know lots of guys have 7, 8 or 9 inch penises – how great would that be? And that right there is the true subject of this article. Forget averages, let’s talk enlargement.

Right off the bat, natural penis enlargement (that is, making your penis longer and thicker without surgery, without pills and without crazy suction devices) is completely possible. Instead of telling you how it is or why it works, I’ll describe how you can see for yourself how truly achievable new penis growth is. Let’s look at a technique called a ‘Dry Jelq’ – it’s used to target new, permanent growth in the thickness of your erect AND flaccid penis.

Step 1. Get a 40-50% erection, no more, no less.

Step 2. Create a circle using the thumb and forefinger of your right hand. It should look like the ‘OK’ sign people make when they want to signal something’s good or acceptable. Your other fingers (middle, ring and pinky) should be outstretched.

Step 3. Firmly grip the base of your penis using the ‘OK’ sign and slowly move your grip upwards towards the head of your penis. Don’t slide over the skin. Instead, focus on keeping your fingers on top of the same area of flesh all the time, while still sliding up and along the shaft. Think of it like the motion used when milking a cow. The blood in your penis is forced up towards and into the head.

Step 4. After you’ve milked from the base to just below where the head of your penis starts, release your grip. You’ve completed one repetition or ‘rep’. Do 20-30 reps for your first session and increase it to 50 once you’ve been doing it a couple of weeks.

The Dry Jelq is just one technique of dozens that have been specially designed and tested and that truly work, with a little bit of patience and practice, at increasing the size of your penis. After using dry jelqs for a couple of weeks you’ll already notice that your penis hangs heavier and lower day-to-day and that it feels more weighty and solid when you’re hard. Using this and the other fundamental techniques as a routine that you do a couple of times a week, you can not only TRULY forget about averages but also forget about BEING average.

Roger is a ‘personal trainer’ at

A simple way to increase your sexual control that you can use TONIGHT!

2007-03-19T10:36:00.000-05:00

Good things are happening in the world of men’s health and fitness – and they’ve been slowly improving for a while now. A perfect example of the kind of positive progress I’m referring to is in the subject of male sexual health, namely: premature ejaculation.
That’s quite a daunting, almost terminal-sounding term. But in essence, all it really means is that your performance in bed – its length in minutes, or maybe even seconds – isn’t something you’re happy with. If you’ve recognized that your sexual abilities aren’t quite up to scratch and have therefore decided to seek an answer to the problem (a way of massively improving your lasting power FOREVER) then you’re already way, way ahead of most guys who share the same concerns as you over their love-making prowess. And let’s face it: what guy WOULDN’T love to quickly and permanently boost their sexual skills?
So, what do most men already know about how to extend sex? Well, I suppose there’s the old classic: taking your mind off it. You can think of non-sexual things, like dead animals, or perhaps try difficult mental arithmetic. This technique works some of the time, for some men. Another method of lasting longer many men try is wearing two condoms, to decrease the sexual sensation and thereby lengthen their performance. Again, this sometimes works for some guys.
I think you’ve probably already spotted the problem with both of these methods, though – they decrease your fun and enjoyment. Sex should be exciting and hassle free! Negative thoughts have no place in great sex. And wearing two condoms, while it may give you a little more time to work your magic, can actually cause more problems than it solves – like a tear caused by a trapped air bubble. That’s the last thing you need.
Thankfully, many simple and stress-free techniques exist that can be used instead of the two above. Combining just a few of the most effective of these methods is often enough to eradicate the problem of premature ejaculation forever. Let’s take a look at one of the best right now: Breath Control.
“The way I breathe? I doubt that has much effect on my sexual performance!”
Most men are right to be sceptical – especially considering the fact that many of us guys have tried controlling our breathing while having sex without any noticeable improvement. The reason we don’t see much difference in performance length and overall impressiveness, quite simply, is because we’re not doing it right. We’ve summarized the technique of deep breathing in our heads and in so doing removed any benefit PROPER breath control can have for us fellas while getting down and dirty.
Let’s look at how it SHOULD be done:
1. Keep your focus on your lower torso. As you breathe in, push out your belly and your lower ribs. Don’t suck your stomach in like most people do when they try to breathe deeply. Think of the breathing action as going out and in rather than up and down. If your chest moves before your belly, or you notice your shoulders rising and falling significantly, you’ll simply reinforce the habit of anxious breathing. Anxious breathing massively decreases your ability to control your sexual arousal. Deep breathing does the reverse and gives you the control back.
2. Keep the breathing natural; don’t try to force it to be perfectly regular. Allow each breath to take the shape and time that feels natural to it. Then rest a little at the end of the out-breath, and wait for the in-breath to start when it wants to. Forcing regular breathing during sex, which MILLIONS of men do daily in, actually creates more mental anxiety than it eradicates. Keeping it natural and unforced further de-stresses your mind and by doing so gives you heightened control over your body – namely, your sexual pleasure.
There’s a multitude of other 100% natural, easy to learn and even easier to use, techniques that can – however much of a surprise it comes as to most men – enhance your performance in bed. You can it make it longer and much more pleasurable to your and your woman, without the pills, sprays or creams so many other men who seek an answer to premature ejaculation use to disappointing effect.
Practice the deep breathing technique above, use it during sex and reap the sexual control benefits! Then, if you want to improve still further, learn and use a few other great arousal management methods.
For more information on how to easily and effectively control your performance in bed, check out Edward White’s book: "The Ultimate Orgasm and Ejaculation Control Manual." It’s available at his site: Click here, limited time offer!

Making A Great First Impression On Women by Tiffany Taylor

2007-02-19T09:40:00.000-05:00

ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you'd be surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true -- first impressions really do count.

Here are some figures to consider from my studies.

If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).

If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.

It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you.

Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best

Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.

Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.

Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.

Why are shoes my number 5 S?

Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.

What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.

Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on clothing.

Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.

Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women feel too.

Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much.

One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists -- maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering.

I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!

And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won't find this anywhere else either. What you need to do is...
By Tiffany Taylor
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How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact

2007-02-17T10:24:00.000-05:00

Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of women AND how men can use special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car they drive.

A New Guide That Lifts The Lid On How To Catch A Cheating Partner With Their Pants Down

2007-02-17T10:23:00.000-05:00

Cheating sucks! And I should know – I’ve been cheated on quite a few times in my life. It’s just a pain in the ass. You put your trust in someone and they betray it, and often not just once but MULTIPLE times, over a period of weeks, months or even years. Although I’m in a relationship I’m confident is trustworthy at the moment, I decided a while ago that I wasn’t going to let a cheating partner get me down ever again. That’s why I went looking for answers and the reason I’m writing this review.

I found a great guide, called BeatingCheating, that for once doesn’t just recommended using a private investigator, or tell you a bunch of obvious stuff you could have thought up yourself.
I began reading this guide and quickly realized that it was, or the author (Jim Walthby) was an absolute authority on the subject. He covers every possible important angle relating to the subject of infidelity, including what signs to look for, how to question and confront a cheating partner, how to cope with being cheated on and come out of the whole thing on top, the list goes on.

Before buying the guide I was most worried about not knowing the truth of whether my partner was cheating on me like the others have done to me in the past. Then, once I’d finished reading it, I realised that the guide actually TAUGHT ME how to find the answers myself, step-by-step, easy and stress-free…the only way you can truly uncover the truth regarding a suspicious husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend.

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New Guide Reveals How To Kick-Start You and Your Partner’s Sex Life and Have Multiple Orgasms

2007-02-16T16:43:00.000-05:00

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When I sat down one day and came to the conclusion that my sex life and ability in the sack were really not up to scratch, I decided to go looking for something that could help me improve. 2 years passed and I’d devoured dozens of books on sexual technique, tactics for giving girl’s orgasms, etc., all of which fell well short of helping me in any real, useable way. Then, on one of my regular searching and surfing sessions on the net, I came across Orgasmology – a new guide that’s all about the special science of explosive sex and multiple orgasms.

It’s written by a guy called W. Wilcox, who clearly knows his stuff. As soon as I’d taken the plunge and bought access to the guide, I was reading and learning new, powerful ways to sexually impress and pleasure women, skills that most men never learn and use.

Initially I was worried about two things. First, that the guide wouldn’t teach me anything new that I couldn’t find out about elsewhere. As soon as I began reading I realized that this wasn’t an issue – the system is jam-packed full of unique, hard-hitting stuff that’s clearly exclusive to the site. My other concern was that I wouldn’t be able to apply it to my life, but that was also quickly washed away when I used 3 of the techniques I’d learnt on my new girlfriend. I gave her 2 orgasms, which is twice as many as I’ve been able to give her – or any woman – before. Quite simply, the techniques and knowledge I’d picked up from the Orgasmology guide were life changing, and have completely revolutionized, my outlook on sex. My sex life is better than ever!

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The action you can take to discover if your husband or wife is cheating on you

2007-02-16T11:19:00.000-05:00

Do you have a feeling in your gut that’s something wrong in your relationship? That maybe, just maybe, your partner’s being unfaithful? If you do, then you have a decision to make and several options to choose from.

First, think about how sure you are of their infidelity. If you aren’t sure at all, then option 1 – confronting them right now, without wasting any time – is completely out of the question. Doing so could ruin the relationship because it’d highlight, rightly or wrongly, that you don’t trust your partner.

The second option: ignore your suspicions, assume they’re unfounded and that they always will be, that nothing’s going on, and continue as normal. This option’s one many people take, either to avoid being confronted with an ugly truth – that their lover’s doing some extra ‘loving’ behind their backs – or because they fear they’re being unfair to their partners by being suspicious of them and doubtful of their devotedness.

Third option: do something to help eradicate your suspicions – find out either way what’s going on, if your partner’s cheating on you or if they’re being faithful.

Okay, let’s assume option three is the one for you. You want to find out the truth and don’t want to simply ignore your gut instinct and continue on as normal. What methods of investigation, ways of discovering the facts, are there at your disposal?

1. The simplest way (often considered the first step), and something you might have already begun doing, is looking for obvious signs of potential betrayal. Your partner smells of a fragrance, perfume or after-shave you don’t recognize. They’ve been leaving the house for work half an hour earlier than they’ve ever done before, for no apparent reason. They don’t seem to enjoy sex with you as they used to, or choose to avoid it completely whenever they can. Keep an eye out for these surface signs of potential infidelity – in a way, looking for them and recording them in your mind or on paper can be considered harmless, it’s free information there to be noticed…if only you’ll look.

2. After the obvious potential signs of cheating dry up, or when you feel you’re at a dead end looking for and analyzing them, more forthright, headstrong action may be called for. Some people, at this point, reach straight for the Yellow Pages, thumbing right to the private investigator section. That’s one option, sure, but there are things you can do yourself before calling in a third party. First, you could try setting a trap. It may sound a little primeval, like catching a wild animal, but really it’s more like a test. These tests can take many forms. For example, arrange a “trip,” say you’re going away for a couple days to visit your folks, or friends, and use that time to keep track of some of the things your partner does. You don’t necessarily need to sit outside in the car with a pair of binoculars 24/7, just pay attention to key times when your partner would – if you were home – do certain things, like leave the house for work, come home, etc. You’d be surprised how many cheaters embrace these rare, private opportunities to further their affairs and indulge in some extra-marital ‘relations’.

There are also subtler ways of testing your partner’s fidelity and faithfulness. One of them’s called the ‘gossip’ test. It involves bringing up the topic of cheating using a fictional third party, such as one of your work colleagues or friends. Mention, without hinting at your suspicion of them in the slightest, that your friend (or whoever you’ve chosen to use for this test) confided in you that they’re cheating on their partner. Most people are, to some degree or another – even if it’s just to maintain conversation – interested in a little gossip, especially if it involves a subject as juicy as infidelity. But when cheaters hear the topic of cheating brought up, they tend to silently panic – a rush of nerves sweeps their consciousness. Have they been rumbled? Is this a test? Am I reacting like a non-cheater would to this kind of chat? Keep a close watch on how YOUR partner reacts…it could provide a telling insight into their current state of mind, how they feel about cheating, and whether or not – when you boil it right down – you can trust them to not cheat on you.

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4 Secrets That’ll Spice Up Your Sex Life!

2007-02-16T11:16:00.000-05:00

Sex is a healthy, fundamental component of all good relationships. It unites men and women everywhere, both physically and emotionally and allows both the guy and the girl to truly unleash and express their animalistic AND sensual sides. But no one’s sex life is perfect – things slow down, the energy seems to disappear, it’s not as fun or exciting as either of you would like, in short, it needs improving. So what can you do to get back (or even create for the first time) that special spark that makes great sex so…well, great? Here are 4 top tips.

1. PLAY GAMES. The thing that often grinds sex lives to a halt and makes lovemaking become so much of a hassle is the pressure and responsibility that surrounds the whole subject. For the man, there’s the burden of having to make the girl reach her own climax. For the woman, there’s the strain of making sure her man is sexually satisfied and not bored and liable to go looking elsewhere for sex or questioning the stability and longevity of the relationship they’re both in. To counteract these negative pressures, try making having sex a less traditional, scheduled, boring task. Instead, pick a couple of fun games that you can play together that are fun and flirty and that can lead casually and smoothly into the actual sex. Twister, strip poker and spin-the-bottle are all great games that incorporate physical contact and allow both you and your partner to have a little no-hassle, no-responsibility fun that does or doesn’t have to lead to a bout of impromptu lovemaking.

2. NEW LOCATIONS, NEW POSITIONS. People often have a very 2-dimensional outlook on the nature of sex and how one should go about having it. The vast, vast majority of people, for example, only have sex in the bedroom. And even they have a set routine, lights dimmed or off, the same progression through the various stages of sex: a little foreplay, intercourse in missionary and maybe doggy if the guy’s lucky and the girls feeling up to it, then it’s pretty much over. Even if your personal situation has more life than that, sex in the bedroom can still become a drag after a while. So, switch it up. Think about different locations you can use: the living room, bathroom, kitchen…consider all possibilities, even if they at first seem far-fetched and silly. Also, think about locations away from the home once in a while. Motels and cheap hotels offer a couple a fresh place to explore each other. Secondly, improvise and experiment with the positions you use. Missionary, girl on top, spoons, and doggy are all great, but always try to mix in a few more unusual, adventurous ones to spice things up. Even if you find yourself in a tangle with your partner, you’ve still had fun and been spontaneous, which is a key component of any great sex life.

3. COMMUNICATE FANTASIES. Something few men and women do is talk to their partners about what turns them on, about things they’d like to try, scenarios they’d love to act out, etc. etc. Make telling your partner about things that turn you on a regular thing and, in return, you listen to their previously private fantasies and day-dreams. If doing it face-to-face is too embarrassing, consider sending saucy messages via email or text message. You’ll find that after reading about what really gets your partner going, you’ll be much more excited and motivated to please them sexually, and they’ll feel the same way back!

4. SPECIAL OCCASIONS. When you do the same thing many times, even if it started out feeling new and exciting, it can get a little run-of-the-mill and boring. So, to inject a real sense of passion and renewed excitement into your sex life, make certain evenings special nights in (or out, then in!). Go the whole way to making it feel almost like a celebration and do whatever’s necessary to separate it from your usual lovemaking sessions. Popular favourites include getting dressed up separately from your partner, perhaps at a friend’s house, then meeting them in a restaurant for a meal. Then, on returning home, you can indulge each other with a slow and sensual massage or perhaps carry out one or more of the fantasies you’ve been hinting to each other about. From there, sex can begin – maybe on the floor of the living room or even on the stairs – remember, impulsiveness and adventurousness are a turn on, use them to kick-start your sex life!

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How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory’

2007-02-14T10:43:00.000-05:00

There’s something that often happens when you’re out playing the ‘seduction game’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.

This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.

However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get your attention and “win” you back.

1. Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately makes her want to fight for your attention.

2. Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing and joking.

3. When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her friends more than her.
Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience. You can be the guy that gets the girl!

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How to give any woman an orgasm…every time!

2007-02-14T10:39:00.000-05:00

It’s like the Holy Grail for men – making a female reach orgasm when we sleep with them is of the utmost importance to us men and often our number one priority, even outranking our own sexual needs. But why is making a woman cum so high on our to-do lists when we’re in the sack and, once you know it’s something you’d like to be able to do, how do you give a woman an orgasm each and every time? Is there a special technique, a magic touch, or is it in the lap of the Gods whether or not she makes that elusive “O” face (and actually means it!)

Before we get into the techniques - the science behind female sexual gratification - let’s first have a quick look at the subject of orgasms as a whole.

The male climax, which combines ejaculation with an orgasm, is – unless a guy has got something pretty seriously wrong with him – a foregone conclusion in sex. We guys know that when we cum it’s usually end game for us, so we tend to use our orgasms as a marker – the amount of time that elapses between first insertion to final climax constitutes our sexual performance, good or bad. Whether we last as long as we’d like, or do all the things we’d love to do, we’re always guaranteed that predictable pay-off at the end of it all. Women, on the other hand – and somewhat unsurprisingly – are totally different. Whether they achieve an orgasm is entirely dependant on a host of requirements, including but not limited to: the guy’s sexual ability, the female’s knowledge of how her body works, and her mood at the time of sex. Then there’s the added headache (for us!) of women faking orgasms just to please us and keep our egos in check. All combined, giving a girl an orgasm - and realising that we have - is usually a tricky business for most guys. But there ARE things you can do to ensure you stand the absolute best chance of bringing your partner or partners to the highest possible point of sexual pleasure. These are concepts most men never hear of or, if they do, never try – because, to be honest, if they did give them a whirl, the female orgasm really wouldn’t be such an elusive, unattainable thing. Here they are: the techniques and strategies you should use to give a woman an orgasm…every time.

1. PROPER BUILD-UP. Sexual satisfaction and stimulation happens in two different ways: in the mind, and in the body. Many men forget about this balance of the mental and physical, and rush into penetrative sex too quickly, with too much pace. Instead you need to start slow and gradually intensify the attention you give the girl and the actions you perform. So, begin intercourse with slow strokes that vary in depth and angle. Doing this does two things. First, it warms the woman up physically and allows her body to fully accept and accommodate you. Second, it gives you a vital opportunity to watch for what type of stroke speed, depth and angle stimulates the girl the most and pleasures her to the highest degree. Listen to her moans, watch her eyes and try to sense her excitement levels as you vary your technique.

2. DISPLAY YOUR FOCUS. Don’t be afraid to make it obvious that your main goal is pleasuring her as much as you possibly can. Many men feel as if it makes them seem soppy or subordinate to display a desire to only pleasure the female and forget about themselves, but this is a mistake. When you show how much you care about showing her a good time, you achieve three things. First, you turn her on emotionally and mentally (which, as I just mentioned, is vital). Second, you open up healthy communication between the two of you – she can verbally tell you what feels the best and where you should focus. The third reason is the simplest of all: the more you focus your attention on something, the more likely you are to achieve your goal.

3. DOUBLE STIMULATION. Most women achieve their orgasms from external, clitoral stimulation and not penetrative, vaginal sex. So, focus plenty of attention on pleasuring her with your fingers or orally AND giving her external gratification (such as rubbing her clit lightly in a circular motion with the tips of your index, middle and ring fingers) while partaking in actual intercourse. This more than doubles the chance of reaching orgasm.

It’s important we sum up what we’ve just been over – doing so locks the information in your head and makes it easy for you to use it next time you ‘get it on’. First, take it slow and watch for her reactions. When you see her react strongly and positively, remember what action or stroke type or sex position you used. SHOW HER you care about making her feel good. Not only does it make her feel turned on but also automatically more willing and eager to return the favour…in spades! Lastly, vary the action. Mix up intercourse with external stimulation to really boost her pleasure. If you do everything you’ve read here, you’re guaranteed to improve your sex life and the number of orgasms your girl has in it. So give it a go!

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Fake female orgasm

2007-02-13T15:47:00.000-05:00

It's every sexually active man's fear, that his partner or partners have or are faking their orgasms. So is there a way to tell if a girl's only acting like she's in pleasure heaven? And what can a guy do to turn her amateur dramatics into fully blown, sexual satisfaction?

The female orgasm has always been shrouded in mystery for men (and many women!). Unlike a guy's guaranteed sexual pay-off, a female orgasm is never a certainty; for it to occur at all requires a whole host of special requirements to be met. Things like the male's sexual technique, the woman's knowledge of how her body works and responds to different things, and the female's mood at the time of sex all play a part in either preventing or allowing an orgasm to take place. So let's tackle the first issue: what signs should you look for to tell if a girl's putting it on in the sack and not really reaching her ultimate climax?

Sign #1: BLOOD FLOW SIGNALS. When a woman is sexually aroused, the blood flow to specific parts of her body change. These changes are most notable (and useful to us guys!) when a woman climaxes by reaching an orgasm. Here are the Blood Flow Signals you should watch out for:

A. Watch her cheeks as you have sex and take note of how red or blushed they are. When a girl climaxes, the blood flow to her face typically increases, you'll often notice her cheeks suddenly become more pink and flushed.

B. Another part of the body that receives an increased flow of blood when a woman reaches orgasm is the nipples - again, try to watch out for how they change as you have sex and especially when she appears to be having an orgasm. If she IS truly cumming, her nipples may very well become harder and more "erect".

C. Her chest is another GREAT place to notice the after-effects of an orgasm. A massive percentage of women, right after they climax, have a red flush on their chests that almost looks like a light rash. If your girl has this, it's a strong sign she's just achieved the magic "O."

D. Lastly, her vagina's lips (labia). Look for a slight swelling and reddening as another indication that she's not play-acting her ultimate pleasure.

Sign #2: The above blood flow signals are usually noticed just after a woman's climaxed. This sign is noticeable only when she's actually experiencing an orgasm. Try to feel or sense tiny contractions in her vagina - these twitches often happen as a natural result of what a woman is psychically going through and feeling and serve as a really good, accurate indicator of whether or not she's actually cumming.

Sign #3: When they reach orgasm, most women sort of zone out for a moment and then, over the 15-20 seconds that follow their climax, slowly come "back around." Look for this zoning out effect by watching her eyes after she supposedly cums. Do they look sort of glazed or glassy, even for just a few seconds? The good thing about this sign is that women rarely ever try to or even know how to fake it, so when you DO notice it, it actually tends to mean something significant (and positive!).

Sign #4. Lastly, consider the way she acts and behaves. When she 'climaxes', is it usually from the same kind of stimulation. For example, does she tend to cum most of the time from oral sex or penetrative sex? Is it usually towards the end of your lovemaking or does it seem to happen randomly. If her orgasms ARE wild and inconsistent and brought about seemingly by completely different kinds of stimulus, there may be something...amiss. Also, does she talk about having an orgasm a lot? Say, after you finish sex, does she often confirm - even without you asking - that she had a great time and came lots? A lot of women do this when they think the man hasn't believed their orgasmic reactions, so consider what she says and the way she says it carefully.

Overall, your goal is never to be a private investigator in bed. You simply want to know if she's being satisfied or not, right? To help you ascertain whether or not you're regularly bringing her to orgasm, look for the 4 signs and signals you've just read. If you DO think she's faking it, I recommend first talking to her about it. But then, as the real answer to the problem, you should pick up your game and learn exactly how to physically satisfy her - or, for that matter - any woman. There are dozens of techniques and strategies for doing this, all ready to be learnt and applied to your sex life...so don't wait any longer to revolutionize your performance and ability in bed.

Don't ever doubt again, make sure it isn't fake!
W. Wilcox is the expert author of Orgasmology, an online guide that coaches men on the special techniques that make up the science of explosive sex and multiple orgasms.

Help with cheating - Are they cheating on you? 3 Sure signs to find out.

2007-02-13T15:39:00.000-05:00

An unfaithful husband, cheating wife, any kind of disloyal partner, is an ugly prospect. And that feeling of being betrayed by someone we thought we could trust more than anyone else is one of the worst. People who discover their partners have been unfaithful to them go through a hurricane of different emotions - anger, sadness, shame, dejection, sometimes even relief. It's a grieving process, not of a person that's died, but of a relationship and level of trust that's instantly disintegrated. In short, it sucks.

But before you can begin "grieve" that loss of trust, or simply throw caution to the wind and ditch your partner for good, you need to make absolutely sure your reaction will be 100% warranted. You need to know without doubt whether your lover has, in fact, double-crossed you by looking for, finding, and partaking in, an affair.

The only guaranteed way of knowing this, aside from finding damning physical evidence or seeing the affair with your own eyes (both pretty rare), is by hearing a confession straight from the horse's mouth, by communicating your suspicions with your partner and listening to what they have to say - however heartbreaking or relieving their response might be. But before you take that big step, there are a few simpler and smaller steps you can take to make the whole process, the whole "investigation" and confrontation of your partner, easier and more factually accurate.

The first thing you should do is look for some of the most common signs/groups of signs people produce when they cheat. I've listed 3 of them below. Read over and think about each and carefully consider if they apply to you, your partner and your relationship.

1. Changes in sex drive and sexual behaviour.
Sex is almost always an integral part of a happy and healthy relationship between two people. So when one of the two, regardless of whether it's the guy or the girl, begins to cheat, it doesn't come as any surprise that changes in the way they feel about having sex with their partner can be brought about. There are two main ways these changes can manifest themselves. When the cheater initially begins their affair, they may - out of guilt and in an effort to avoid the newly formed affair being rumbled - actually increase the amount of attention they pay their real partners in bed. Conversely, and usually a little while after the affair has begun, the cheater may appear to have a loss of sex drive. They, for some reason, seem to not want to be intimate with you as much as they used to. Once again, this can be attributed to guilt, but more often it's to do with a fear they'll reveal their infidelity through they way they behave before, during and after having sex with you.

2. Peculiar changes in habits & schedule.
When people cheat, they invariably change their behaviour and/or habits in some way, small or large. The reason they cannot avoid these alterations is because, no matter how infrequently or secretly they see the person they're having an affair with, they MUST - at some point or another - go out of their way to do so (and thereby break or change habits and behaviour). So, look for recent and pronounced modifications in the times they come home/leave the house (and whether the changed times 'repeat' weekly), increased usage of the phone or computer for no obvious/innocent reason, and other differences in the way your partner acts and behaves. You know your partner's old habits and ways of living better than anyone, so draw from that knowledge to compare how they might have changed them and to decide if the changes are to be taken as possible indications of betrayal.

3. Miscellaneous indicators of infidelity.
Lastly, there's the group of infidelity indicators that don't fit in any other box or under any other title. They're the things you notice, question and cannot innocently explain away. They're the things you spot but almost choose to forget because you're so unsure of what they may or may not mean and whether, ultimately, they are true signs that your partner is cheating on you with someone else. Here are just a couple of miscellaneous indications of infidelity:

A. Your partner no longer seems to get angry with you when in the past they always seemed to be picking a fight or getting worked up over any tiny issue. Cheaters often 'let their partners off' because they want as little confrontation (which could lead to a discovery on your part) as possible.

B. She or he frequently shifts the focus onto you. Cheaters often asks their partners more questions about how their day went, how they're feeling, etc, again, to shift the attention away from them and their guilt.

Remember, when you suspect your partner may be cheating, always take the smaller steps - by looking for the kinds of subtle signs listed above - before taking the biggest step of all: confronting them. Doing so will give you the very best chance of a happy, or at least a more manageable, final outcome.

Catch them with their pants down!
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Alone on Valentine's day - 7 Ways to Cope

2007-01-14T11:43:00.000-05:00

I've went through Valentine's day alone more than once! It is so depressing. You feel like it's a holiday that was invented to make people that are alone realise they are alone.

Well, with my experience, I found a couple of tricks to cope with being alone on Valentine's day

Coping with being Alone on Valentine's day tip 1

Go see a movie. Not a romantic, or romantic comedy. Go see a horror, a comedy or even an action movie, but nothing that will make you think of love. The goal here is to put your mind on something else.

Coping with being Alone on Valentine's day tip 2

Play some video games. That is always a no-brainer, playing video games distracts you completely from the real world. Plus, you can actually court that hot virtual beauty from level 4.

Coping with being Alone on Valentine's day tip 3

Play sports. You'll clear up your mind, and you can even let go of all the stress and agressivity. Of course, miniature golf might not be the best idea... But hey, to each his own.

Coping with being Alone on Valentine's day tip 4

Order take out or eat at home. You don't need to go out to the restaurants and see all those couples kissing and groping, it will just depress you more.

Coping with being Alone on Valentine's day tip 5

Call your single friends. Have a group activity. Like Pictionnary. I don't really like pictionnary, but you get what I mean, right?

Coping with being Alone on Valentine's day tip 6

Go out clubbing. Most probably, there will be other singles out clubbing, all as desperate as you are to find someone to be there Valentine. So this is a great night to maybe pick someone up.

Coping with being Alone on Valentine's day tip 7

Online dating. Same as the clubbing, Valentines day is full of singles on the dating scene, all those people feeling alone just like you. Hey, if you don't find someone, you'll at least talk to someone that is almost 99% sure!

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How to get a girl to like me

2007-01-14T11:36:00.000-05:00

You might be just like I was about a year ago. A man that is single and can't seem to get a date from a girl, even if you convinced her it would help cure all lethal diseases in the world.

Ok, I might be exagerating, but a year ago that's exactly how I felt. I thought that I would never be able to get a really beautiful looking girl, or that girl next door that is so nice. At one point I was even sure I couldn't even get that ugly girl in the corner, with the braces and the full face glasses.

I felt like that until I found the ultimate ingredients to finding how to get a girl. All I needed was a little help... I couldn't believe it when I started putting this stuff into action, I actually got the prettiest girls I had ever met in my life.

I used to watch television and see these ugly men with beautiful women and I never understood how they did it. I just cursed at them jealously like I did of people that win the lottery... Pure jealousy.

So, I kept asking "How to get a girl to like me?" What are the tricks of the trade?

Well, there are ALOT. But when it all comes down to it. It's a question of psychology. You have got to get to know how women think. Once you find out how they think, you can actually start talking with them and realize they are really interested in what you have to say.

Besides thinking like a woman, How to get a girl to like me? Well, the rest is pretty much a chain reaction to the first principle. Once women start listening to you, you actually get more confident and realise you might have a chance. Being more confident, you might less fear rejection and actually dare to ask or say things you would normally be afraid of doing.

So basically, How to get a girl to like me? It's all really up to you. It's a question of how you present yourself, how you feel about yourself and how you project yourself.

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